The Charity Washing Machine
How the non-profit sector became an industry of moving money, managing assets, and missing the point.
For decades, the “non-profit” label acted like a shield.
It implied that an organization was virtuous, selfless, and working for the public good.
If a group had “501(c)(3)” next to its name, Americans generally assumed it was on the side of the angels.
That perception has now been shattered.
After years of reading about bloated CEO salaries, fraud scandals where money meant for kids bought luxury cars, and universities that hoard billions in endowments while raising tuition, the American public has become cynical.
We haven’t stopped caring about our neighbors, but we have stopped believing that the massive institutions asking for our money are the best way to help them.
The average American looks at non-profits today and sees a machine that is great at sustaining itself, but increasingly bad at solving the problems it was built to fix.
Donors haven’t walked away because eggs got expensive.
They walked away because they started asking questions that the non-profit sector couldn’t, or wouldn’t, answer.
The $600 Billion Lie
If you only looked at the headlines, you would think we were living in a golden age of generosity.
Last year, the total amount given to charity in the United States hit a record high of nearly $600 billion.
The non-profit conferences celebrated.
The fundraising consultants patted themselves on the back.
But if you peel back the glossy cover of that report, you find a rotting interior.
That number is a dangerous distraction.
While the total pile of cash is growing, the number of actual people contributing to it is in freefall.
We are witnessing a “generosity mirage.”
The non-profit sector is flush with cash from the ultra-wealthy and the booming stock market, but it has lost the participation of the American middle class.
Twenty years ago, two-thirds of American households gave to charity.
Today, that number has dropped to below half.
This is a “K-shaped” philanthropy.
At the top, billionaires and foundations are moving massive amounts of capital.
At the bottom, the everyday donor is disappearing.
The tragedy is that the small donor was the accountability check.
When millions of people give $50, they pay attention to whether the local library is open or the food bank is actually feeding people.
When one billionaire gives $50 million, the organization answers only to that billionaire.
The sector has traded a broad base of support for a few deep pockets, and in doing so, it has detached itself from the reality of the average citizen.
The Shell Game
Where is all that money actually going?
If you tried to follow a charitable dollar in America today, you might get dizzy.
The modern non-profit sector is starting to look less like a charity and more like a washing machine.
It has become a system that spins billions of dollars around without seemingly cleaning up any of society’s messes.
This is the era of the “slosh.”
A significant portion of that record-breaking $600 billion isn’t landing on the ground to help people.
It is being parked in holding tanks.
The most popular of these are Donor-Advised Funds, or DAFs.
These are essentially charitable checking accounts.
A wealthy donor puts a million dollars into a DAF and gets an immediate tax write-off.
The government considers the money “given.”
But here is the trick: there is no legal requirement for that money to be actually distributed to a working charity in any specific timeframe.
It can sit there for years, invested in the stock market, earning fees for the financial managers who run the fund.
The money sloshes from the donor to the fund.
Sometimes it sloshes from one fund to another foundation.
Then it might slosh to a “fiscal sponsor” or an “intermediary” organization.
Each time it moves, a little bit is shaved off for administrative fees, management costs, and consultant salaries.
By the time the dollar actually tries to buy a meal or a textbook, it is a fraction of its former self.
To the average American, this looks like a scam.
They see “non-profits” that exist primarily to fund other “non-profits.”
They see grants awarded for “capacity building” and “strategic planning” rather than for doing the work.
It creates a closed loop where the professional class of the non-profit world keeps itself employed, writing reports for each other, while the problems outside the office window get worse.
“Lives Impacted”
Even when the money does get spent, the public is becoming increasingly skeptical of the results.
The non-profit world has become obsessed with metrics, but they are often the wrong ones.
The favorite buzzword is “impact.”
You will see annual reports boasting that an organization “impacted 100,000 lives.”
But what does that actually mean?
In many cases, it is a vanity metric designed to look good in a pitch deck rather than reflect reality.
If a non-profit runs a Facebook ad that is seen by 50,000 people, have they “impacted” 50,000 lives?
If they hand out a brochure, is that an impact?
The darker side of this metric obsession is that it creates a perverse incentive.
If your funding depends on showing high numbers of people served, you have no incentive to actually solve the problem.
If you solve the problem, your customers disappear, and your funding dries up.
You are incentivized to maintain a steady stream of people in need.
We see this in the homeless industrial complex in major cities.
Billions of dollars are poured into the system every year.
The salaries of the executives running the housing non-profits continue to rise.
And yet, the number of people sleeping in tents on the sidewalk goes up.
The metric of “services delivered” (beds filled, meals served) is booming, but the metric of “problem solved” (people permanently housed) is failing.
The system is designed to manage poverty, not end it.
The average donor sees this.
They walk past the same encampments year after year, despite the tax hikes and the donation drives, and they realize that the machine is broken.
The BMW in the Food Line
This disconnection creates a deep sense of unfairness.
The social contract of charity is based on the idea that those who have give to those who need. But without strict accountability, that line blurs.
Consider the stories that seem to circulate every holiday, of “BMWs in the foodbank line”.
Volunteers at food banks have reported seeing people pull up in luxury vehicles to collect free Thanksgiving turkeys or weekly grocery boxes.
While anecdotes aren’t data, they represent a massive failure of targeting.
When non-profits are so focused on “pounds of food distributed” to hit their grant metrics, they may stop checking who is actually receiving it.
The goal becomes moving the product, not helping those in need.
To a struggling middle-class family who is scraping by to pay for their own groceries, seeing resources go to people who don’t appear to need them is a slap in the face.
It feels like the system is being gamed.
It reinforces the idea that non-profits are just giving stuff away to boost their own numbers, regardless of actual need.
The Betrayal of Fraud
If the “BMW” story is an annoyance, the recent waves of high-profile fraud are a betrayal.
The most damaging example in recent memory is the “Feeding Our Future” scandal in Minnesota.
A non-profit that was supposed to be feeding hungry children during the pandemic was instead funneling $250 million into the pockets of its organizers.
The details were grotesque.
The money wasn’t buying sandwiches; it was buying real estate, luxury cars, and vacations.
What shook public confidence wasn’t just that criminals existed, It was how easy it was.
The government and the larger philanthropic ecosystem just kept cutting the checks.
There was seemingly no oversight, no verification, no one stopping to ask, “Are these children actually eating?”
When a donor reads a story like that, a switch flips in their brain.
They look at the solicitation email from a legitimate charity and wonder, “Is this one real? Or is this just another slush fund?”
The presumption of innocence is gone and non-profits aren’t doing enough to prove they are clean.
The Economic Squeeze and the Billionaire Spectacle
While trust is crumbling, the economic reality for the average donor has become brutal.
We cannot ignore the fact that the middle class is under siege.
Inflation has acted like a regressive tax on generosity.
When the price of eggs, gas, and rent skyrockets, the “discretionary” income that used to go to the church plate or the monthly charity pledge evaporates.
But it’s not just that people have less money; it’s that they feel less relevant.
We are living in the age of the Billionaire Spectacle.
When you open the news and see that a tech mogul has donated $500 million to a university that already has a $40 billion endowment, your own capacity to give feels laughable.
This is the “crowding out” effect.
The sheer scale of top-heavy philanthropy makes the small donor feel like a spectator.
“Why does the local hospital need my $50?” a person asks.
“They just got a wing named after a hedge fund manager.”
It creates a psychological permission structure to stop giving.
We assume the rich have it covered.
We assume the problems are too big for us, and that the only people who matter are the ones with ten zeros in their bank account.
The Financial Trap
Ultimately, charity in America has become a financial product.
It has been captured by asset managers, tax strategists, and professional fundraisers.
It is a booming industry that creates jobs for the college-educated elite but increasingly fails to deliver for the people on the ground.
The sector like much of America has become overly “financialized.”
It speaks the language of return on investment, leverage, and scale, but it has lost the language of neighborliness.
It treats donors like ATMs and beneficiaries like data points.
As long as the sector is optimized for tax breaks rather than tangible results, the disconnect will only widen.
The machinery will keep humming, the money will keep sloshing through the pipes of the DAFs and the foundations, but the heart of American generosity will quietly stop beating.
We have built a system that is rich in assets but poor in spirit.
We have efficient mechanisms for taking money, but inefficient mechanisms for solving problems.
And the American public, in their infinite wisdom, has realized it.
The only way to fix this is to tear down the facade.
We need to stop applauding the “record-breaking” fundraising numbers and start asking where that money actually lands.
We need to strip away the layers of intermediaries, the donor-advised funds that act like parking lots for wealth, and the obsession with “awareness” over action.
For the average person, the answer might be to bypass the system entirely.
The people are struggling, yes.
The economy is hard, yes.
But the desire to help is still there.
It is just waiting for a system that deserves it.
Until the non-profit sector can prove that it is actually solving problems rather than just servicing them, the wallets of the middle class will—and perhaps should—stay closed.




Devastating analysis of how donor-advised funds have turned philanthropy into asset managment theater. The "slosh" metaphor perfectly captures it—I worked at a foundation where we literally tracked grants that went from one DAF to another intermediary org before maybe reaching an actual program, with each handoff shaving fees. What's especially pernicious is how this system lets billionaires claim immediate tax deductions while maintaining control indefinitely, essentialy parking wealth tax-free. The K-shaped donor chart should be front-page news but instead we celebrate the $600B headline.